THE SpARK SESSION FOR coUPLES
MAKE LOVE SWEETER... OR TAKE SEX DEEPER
Have you seen those statistics that say the things people dread most are being trapped in coffins with spiders and dental work and public speaking?
Well, I think maybe those surveys left off one option: RELATIONSHIP COUNSELING.
Because boy oh boy do we get the heebie jeebies about talking to a third party about our relationship stuff!
I mean... Does this sound familiar?
- "It's supposed to just work if you're with the right person, right?"
- "If it's gotten hard, you should be able to fix that on your own, unless there's something wrong with you."
- "If it gets soooooo bad that you HAVE TO go see someone... Well, they're gonna give you a verdict on which one of you is the messed-up one. Unless it's both of you."
- "Seeking sexual guidance? At least one of the following will probably ensue: awkwardness, hurt feelings, scratchy polyester costumes, rug burns, awkward breakfast conversation at a doily-strewn bed and breakfast."
- "Either way, the entire process will be humiliating and eviscerating and, ultimately, not very helpful."
Avoiding all THAT sounds like a pretty good idea!
BUT WHAT IF REIGNITING THE SPARK
COULD ACTUALLY BE FUN?
It can. It IS, every day, in my work. I created Spark Sessions for couples because after six years of helping couples in-depth, I realized something: really great results come from the very first session... And clients tell me they're relieved at how much less painful and more fun working with me is than what they'd imagined. So I designed this fun, one-time session to help couples prioritize the pleasure and connection in their relationship. Now it's simple to go deeper in love or reinvigorate your sexual chemistry.
If you don't know me and my work already, learn more here. Bottom line: two decades of experience, rock-solid training with the best in the business, a quick mind, and an unconventional, playful, yet very pragmatic approach make me a potent ally for your love and sex, even in just one session.
HERE'S HOW IT WORKS:
If you click below, you'll be taken to my calendar for Spark Sessions. You can pick a date, pay for your session - it's $200 - and I'll ask you a few questions to get us percolating. You'll get an email confirmation of your appointment.
The day before our appointment, I'll send you and your partner a reminder and a request to send me a succinct encapsulation of where you are and what you want to focus on, so we can hit the ground running.
At the designated time, we'll all meet via Zoom video conference and we'll speak for up to 55 minutes.
I'll upload a video recording of the call to a DropBox folder I'll share with you within 2 days after the call.
I'll also welcome a follow-up email a week or 2 later, to let me know how you're applying your session, and I'll reply with what I'm hearing and my responses to any questions you ask then.
WHAT DO COUPLES GET OUT OF THIS SESSION?
After our Spark Session, you might find that you can:
- Get to hotter, more soulful places sexually, because you've gained a playful new understanding of both your sexual desires, and gotten specific guidance and sweet homework to apply it
- Feel more confident, cherished, respected, wanted... or however you each yearn to feel loved... because we excavated those hungers and pinpointed the small and large actions that give you those feelings.
- Communicate clearly, without anybody freaking out, even on That One Thing that's been so hard to feel heard about... Because I could really hear you both, hold it all lightly, and translate in a way you could both grok.
- Approach your partner - or receive your partner's invitations - with ease and joy and turn-on because we exposed and then broke the pattern you'd gotten into together
- Feel more, express more, laugh more, release more, and come together more because we enacted fresher, less-guarded (more loving, and way sexier) ways of being present to one another and to yourselves.