EPISODE SHOW NOTES
Let me ask you a personal question (or a few). Do you have fantasies about sex with other people? Do you have sometimes active desires to consummate those fantasies? Do you wonder what that means about you or about your partner? I’m going to guess you answered “yes” to at least one of these questions. And you know what? That is all totally okay. Today we're going to talk about your desire for sex with other people and start to dig in to what that could mean for you.
As you listen to this episode, you'll learn::
Different reasons you might want sex with another person
What your desires or fantasies might signal about your needs and how they could actually benefit your relationship
What it means you are fantasizing about a specific person or about finding someone new in the abstract
Questions to ask yourself about to get to the root of your desire and address it
And more.
And more.
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“ I think of sexual fantasies as being like a Pensieve, they show us ourselves. You can see yourself in your desires.”
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- Michele Lisenbury Christensen
Links Mentioned in This Episode:
Recommended reading regarding sex with other people:
“Sex at Dawn” by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá
“The State of Affairs” and “Mating in Captivity” by Esther Perel, one of my teachers
“Opening Up” by Tristan Taormino
“The Ethical Slut” by Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy
Hot Moments in This Episode:
The money habit that’s a sex-crusher (8:20)
How money conflicts can be the canary in the coal mine (9:42)
Explaining what I mean by “financial infidelity” (13:25)
The different money strategies I have heard from hundreds of people (17:56)
My wish for you is that you see yourself as that visionary, that change agent who is blessed with a vision that others might not yet see, but a vision that will serve you in the world very well, if you nourish yourself well enough to hold the vision and devote yourself to it with self love and perseverance. And may the light within you illuminate the world around you.
If the conversations on this podcast are resonating for you and you want to create the love, sex, and aliveness you desire with more ease, I invite you to enter a deeper relationship with me, through private coaching or my group mentorship program. Either way, you get powerful tools, conversation cheat sheets, meditations, and my loving and skillful attention every month, so your capacity for the pleasure and joy you want grows, continuously. CLICK HERE to apply for a consultation.
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