When I pictured myself in my 40s, married with kids... I never thought about all the ways sex would be different than it had been so far. Um... It's different now.
David Brooks of the New York Times recently wrote an article outlining three views of marriage: The Psychological Lens, the Romantic Lens, and the Moral Lens.
Valentine’s Day, oh, Valentine’s Day. We love you. We hate you. All the potential… all the pressure. Especially in a long-term relationship… very few of which get through 5 or 10 or 20 Februaries without some “Ghosts of Valentines Past” haunting them and making both partners gunshy for the next.