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If you’re a woman and you feel like you’re always “on”, always have to be handling projects, tasks, and other people’s feelings and needs…. And you just crave to let down, lay back, and have someone else handle it all for YOU now and then… and handle you really well in bed, to boot… This episode is for you.
Or if you love a woman who seems demanding, take-charge, always “on” and seldom satisfied, and you sometimes wonder how you could possibly truly “win” with her… This episode is for you.
In this episode I'm going to share:
The epidemic that is leaving many high-achieving women high and dry (if you know what I mean!) feeling under-held and under-handled in bed and in their lives.
Why it’s so hard for women to articulate what they need from their husbands or partners - and why they so often ask for what they want it in a way that leaves their partners feeling criticized
Why women often don’t know why they get cranky and dissatisfied, or what they really need, and how I stopped this pattern in myself.
The key to handling your wife if you want to skillfully navigate her intensity, especially if it looks like she’s got everything handled, herself.
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"What your woman most needs from you, is what you most need to give. Your strongest, most upright, most penetrating self is in high demand. And if you don't call up the part of you who can absolutely handle her, you will always be afraid. You'll always feel like the wimp or insert your choice of word here that you're afraid she's calling you. You'll always worry that she's looking down on you. You'll always resent her for being more man than you are."
- Michele Lisenbury Christensen
Hot Moments in This Episode:
How to get it right with strong women 9:30
Three camps strong women fall into when it comes to wanting to be handled 12:44
What women really need and why 14:50
Whose fault is it you can't win with her? 17:43
What she most needs from you is what you most need to give 20:22
Passing her test with flying colors 21:32
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