044: Are You the Visionary in Your Relationship?
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"If I'm such a visionary about relationship, and my partner doesn't think that way, isn't that a problem?" This is a question I have heard many times and one I asked myself in my relationship, too. It’s a big responsibility and can feel like a burden. But what I have come to see is that I am someone who has been gifted with the opportunity to hold vision. So in this episode, I'm going to share with you what I've learned about being a visionary in love. I'm going to answer some of those key questions that visionaries often ask me, and I'm going to call you up, I'm going to invite you into courage and into action in the role of the visionary.You will definitely be hooked up on this episode.
In this episode, we’ll discuss:
What a visionary is and what our role is in our relationships
Why you don’t have to worry if you feel like you’re always two steps ahead of your partner in visioning your relationship
The difference between “values” and “approach” and why it matters
Recognizing the higher desire partner in aspects of your relationship
How to pursue your “too big” vision without resenting (or creating resentment from) your partner
And more.
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Links Mentioned in This Episode:
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Hot Moments in This Episode:
What a therapist asked me in 2003 that changed my life (1:57)
The two core questions that people often ask me when they're the visionary (8:49)
Why you might have chosen a partner who isn’t as ambitious as you (11:29)
Getting your partner on board with your vision (16:10)
The free tool you can download now to create a vision for your life together (18:32)
My wish for you is that you see yourself as that visionary, that change agent who is blessed with a vision that others might not yet see, but a vision that will serve you in the world very well, if you nourish yourself well enough to hold the vision and devote yourself to it with self love and perseverance. And may the light within you illuminate the world around you.
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