008: Are you not asking for more for fear you’ll hurt his feelings?
EPISODE SHOW NOTES
As you listen to this episode, you'll hear about:
How tamping down your dreams and ambitions for your relationship could adversely affect your marriage
The reasons it’s hard to ask a man for something different in love or sex
The game changing 7 tips that will get you talking to your husband about what you want more of
How to claim more joy, lightness and pleasure in your life
What happens when we’re in bed with the patriarch
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Hot Moments in This Episode:
How not talking to your husband about things that would make your love deeper or your sex better could be keeping your bedroom from getting hotter. 01:18
Why women are so protective of men's feelings because of mistaken beliefs that men are sensitive to criticism or fragile in the face of women’s erotic desires. 03:09
The 7 keys to talking to your husband about what you'd like more of. 12:23
KEY 1: TIMING 12:27
KEY 2: CONSENT 12:41
KEY 3: INTENTION 13:19
KEY #4: RECIPROCITY 13:43
KEY #5: POSITIVE FOCUS 14:17
KEY #6: CURIOSITY 14:54
KEY #7: RESILIENCE 15:23
Tune in to Episode 009 to learn about another huge factor in why we don't get what we want from our partners even when we think we've asked a thousand times, and how we can reverse this problem.
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